Supporting You on the Day – My Role at the Funeral Itself
- Adam Peregrine
- Jun 19
- 3 min read
When the day of the funeral arrives, emotions can feel overwhelming. As your local funeral director, I want you to know you're not alone. From the first phone call to the moment you say your goodbyes, I'm with you every step of the way — quietly guiding, supporting, and making sure everything runs exactly as it should.
What Happens on the Day of the Funeral?
Whether you’ve chosen a traditional service or a celebrant-led funeral in Ludlow, here’s what you can expect when the day comes. I’ll have made sure all the arrangements are in place long before we meet that morning — from coordinating with the church or crematorium, to ensuring all vehicles and orders of service are ready.
Here’s how I personally support you throughout the day:
1. Arriving with Care
I’ll be the one arriving with the hearse, making sure your loved one is carried with the utmost dignity. Whether the service is at one of Ludlow’s beautiful churches or at the crematorium, I’ll be there to welcome you, manage timings, and offer calm reassurance.
2. Leading the Procession
If there's a cortege, I’ll lead the way, setting the pace and ensuring family and friends feel included. I keep everything on time, while never rushing a moment that deserves to be honoured.
3. Officiating as Celebrant (If You Wish)
If you don’t have a minister or celebrant in mind, I’m more than happy to lead the service myself. Many families appreciate that continuity; from the very first meeting to standing at the front on the day, it's still me looking after you.
This is a key part of what makes my offering different from larger firms. It’s not just arranging the logistics — it’s about truly being there.
4. Managing the Details So You Don’t Have To
On the day, I’m there to handle every small detail — coordinating with pallbearers, seating guests, and working with the venue. I always carry tissues, umbrellas (just in case!), and make sure everyone feels looked after.
Why It Matters That It’s Just Me
Larger funeral homes in Shropshire often have a team of people doing different parts of the job. One person might collect your loved one, another might plan the service, and someone else might lead the funeral. With me, you’ll only ever deal with me. I think that consistency brings comfort, especially when so much feels uncertain.
I limit myself to around 50–60 funerals a year so that I can give each family the time and attention they need. This isn’t just my job, it’s a calling. And it’s personal.
Celebrant-Led Funerals in Ludlow – Tailored & Personal
More and more families are choosing celebrant-led funerals because they want something truly personal. Whether religious, spiritual, or completely non-religious, I can help shape a service that reflects the life and values of your loved one.
And if you’re unsure about what’s right, I’ll take the time to guide you through your options, explaining everything without pressure.
“Stephen provided a caring & efficient service. He was always available to answer any questions and nothing was too much trouble. He took care of everything from start to finish in a professional yet sensitive manner. I would highly recommend.” – A recent family I had the privilege to support
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If you’re searching for a funeral director in Ludlow or the neighbouring areas who truly walks the journey with you, you’ve found me. I’m available 24/7, whether you’re ready to make arrangements or just have questions.
📍 Serving Ludlow and surrounding areas within a 15-mile radius
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