Using My Chapel of Rest in Ludlow for a More Private Farewell

Adam Peregrine
Jun 19
3 min read

Not every goodbye needs to be large or public. In fact, some of the most meaningful farewells I’ve seen have happened in the quiet of my on-site chapel of rest here in Ludlow.

I’m Stephen from S. Hoskins & Son Funeral Directors, and I know that when someone dies, every family’s needs are different. Some want the full church service. Others prefer simplicity. But all of them — every single one — want dignity, care, and time to say goodbye.

That’s why I offer families a small, personal space to hold a private farewell, even if they choose a direct cremation.

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What Is a Chapel of Rest?

A chapel of rest is a dedicated, peaceful room where your loved one can be visited before the funeral or cremation. It’s not a church; there are no pews or pulpits. Just a comfortable, intimate setting that allows family and close friends to reflect, share memories, or simply sit quietly with the person they’ve lost.

At my funeral home in Ludlow, the chapel is on-site. It’s part of a 1930s building, and I’ve kept it traditional and timeless, respectful, serene, and ready whenever you need it.

Saying Goodbye Privately – Even With a Direct Cremation

Many people associate direct cremation with no service and no chance to say goodbye. But I do things a little differently.

When you choose a direct cremation with service, I give you access to the chapel at no extra cost. You can gather here — just a handful of loved ones — and say goodbye your way.

Here’s what’s included:

Use of my on-site chapel of rest for a private farewell
Quiet time with your loved one, dressed and prepared with care
The option for me to lead a simple, respectful farewell as a celebrant
A peaceful environment with space for up to 20 people

This allows for all the emotional value of a small funeral service, without the need for a formal venue or added cost.

Why a Small Funeral Service Can Feel More Personal

Some families feel they need to hold a big service because it’s expected. But over the years, I’ve seen that smaller, private goodbyes often feel more meaningful.

You can:

Speak freely without the pressure of a crowd
Take your time without feeling rushed
Invite only those closest to the person who has died

In my chapel, you won’t feel like just another number in a busy funeral schedule. There are no “slots.” I only take on a limited number of funerals per year so I can give families the time they need, without compromise.

How I Support You Throughout the Process

As your funeral director, I’m with you every step of the way. From collecting your loved one with care, to dressing them and preparing them for the chapel, I handle everything myself.

You won’t speak to call centres or be passed around a team. I’m the one answering your calls, guiding you through decisions, and standing with you on the day.

This one-to-one approach is especially important if you’re choosing a chapel of rest goodbye — it means everything is arranged calmly and personally, with no stress or confusion.